Clutter

I went several months ago to a women's conference with a session titled something like how to loose 300 pounds in a week. Well I thought it was going to be about shedding the clutter in our hearts and how it affects our spiritual lives etc. Oh boy was I wrong, it was literally about shedding clutter, not from our hearts but from our homes. I discovered this before the speaker even began speaking, the garbage bags under our seats were a tip off. I was so overcome with dread I wanted to leave. I did not want to be preached at about how I keep house and my piles of clutter. What difference does that really make.
Because I am a pastors wife and people from my church were sitting with me I didn't feel like I could get up and leave,(the fact that the district superintendents wife was the one teaching the class may have also kept me glued to my chair.) I am so glad I stayed, it wasn't a hugely spiritual renewal or deep revelation about God but it was so practical. She talked about all the extra stuff we have and how it weighs us down and even how it can affect our children's ability to learn.
Why am I telling you all of this and did I do anything with what I heard is what your saying. I did come home and clean out several junk drawers,(yes several, not one but several) I also boxed up about twelve boxes of toys and clothes. I felt pretty good about myself until stuff started getting cluttered again. I think it is a decision we have to make, THROW IT AWAY!!! If you haven't seen it, let alone used it in a year you don't need it.
I have begun the process again, this time with several more trash bags in hand. It feels good getting rid of things and it really does free up space in your mind. I really think there is truth to this, the less we have to worry about, find a place for, and pick up the more room we have to think about things that are really important.
After we declutter our homes it is good to declutter our hearts and minds, we need to make room for the new things God has for us.

Routine

This is the third day of school for Olivia and Caleb. Wednesday, the first day, I didn't even cry. That is a first for me. Typically the first day of school is spent with me in tears the entire day, this year I kissed them both and waved good bye. They needed to get back into their routine, I needed to get back to mine as well. In the three days they have been back I have looked at my WIP more then I had over half the summer.
There is something to be said about routines. The only way I get things done, bible reading, writing, cleaning is when I consistently do it regardless of what else needs done.
Hopefully it won't be to much longer before all of the work has paid off and my book is ready to submit.




As I talked about in my previous blog I took a writing class on our trip. It was very helpful. I expected it to be a lecture but it was a very hands on workshop. The exercise the facilitator had us do was to draw a picture of a place that made us feel safe. She wanted it to be detailed, trees, street names, surrounding areas.

The place I chose was an easy choice, my grandparents house. After drawing the picture, mine was more like scribbling a picture, we had to list stories that we could tell someone about that place. The list was really long, the memories from there are good memories. We then shared our ideas with a couple of people and they told you which of those sounded like an interesting story they would like to hear more about.

It was a great way to stimulate writing. The thing which helped me the most was when the instructor reminded us that they did not know what the place looked like, where it was located, or who would be there.

Since I got home I have reminded myself that my reader has no idea where the story is taking place, what the characters look like, or what their surroundings are. I think it has helped alot.

That is all of my wonderful writing insight for today. School starts this week, maybe life will get a little more structured now.

Cruise









Postcards do not do justice to sights we beheld on our Caribbean cruise. Water so blue and clear. Beaches covered in sand as fine as sugar. We had a wonderful time.


I highly recommend a cruise to anyone who may be considered a work aholic, (my husband is very close to that category). You are surrounded by water, you are forced to relax. The ship has activities all the time but you don't have to participate. A lot of the time Todd and I found chairs near the pool and read until we got to hot then we swam, then we would read.

It seems God always knows exactly what we need and when, why I still get surprised by this is beyond me. I have gotten, to say a little discouraged and lazy about writing would be an understatement, anyway, each day we got a schedule of the days activities, lo and behold on the schedule was a writing workshop. Yes folks in the middle of the Atlantic ocean on a huge ship there was a writing class. Of course I thought about not going but my wonderful husband encouraged me to attend. (He had the honor of watching a men's belly flop contest while I went to the workshop.) It was very good, it was talking about exactly what I have been struggling with.

Maybe I will be over this temporary slump and my book will finally get completed.

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